For men ready to stop pretending and lead from within.
You’re not broken—you’re buried under years of proving, pleasing, and pretending.
I’ve Been Where You Are
You’ve checked every box—success, status, stability. But inside? You’re drifting. I know the feeling.
I’m Stu Murray—men’s coach, author, and founder of Brothr. And I’ve been exactly where you are.
I remember sitting alone in my car, wondering how I could have all this success and still feel so empty. The mask didn’t just weigh me down—it was costing me everything I cared about.
That moment cracked something open. I chose to stop performing and start rebuilding—from the inside out. Through radical ownership, discipline, and brotherhood, I reclaimed my life.
Now, I guide men back to themselves—through radical ownership, grounded brotherhood, and real leadership from within.
This isn’t about perfection. It’s about becoming the kind of man you trust in the mirror.
Why I Do This Work
I do this work because ownership changes everything.
When a man takes full responsibility—not just for what he does, but for how he feels, how he connects, and how he shows up—he stops drifting and starts leading.
He begins to face what he’s buried.
The silence. The shame. The old patterns that kept him stuck.
And in doing so, he stops performing for approval—and starts living with integrity.
He becomes someone he trusts.
Someone others can trust.
Because when a man leads from within, everyone around him rises.
What Changes When You Do This Work
BEFORE
AFTER
Outwardly successful, inwardly empty
Grounded, present, and fulfilled
Emotionally numb or shut down
Emotionally fluent, connected, and respected
Clear, honest, and aligned
Stuck in old patterns
Supported by men who call you forward
Isolated in silence
Leading with presence and purpose
Leading with pressure
My Offerings - Your Path Forward:
1-ON-1 COACHING
You’re not broken—you’re misaligned. This isn’t therapy. It’s practical, personalized mentorship for high-performing men ready to stop outsourcing their worth. We’ll uncover the patterns holding you back, strengthen your emotional muscles, and build a plan that aligns with who you truly are. If you’re ready to face yourself and lead with clarity, this is where it starts.
THE BROTHRHOOD (COMMUNITY)
Growth isn’t a solo mission. The Brothrhood is where real connection meets consistent growth. Inside, you’ll get weekly calls, expert guest sessions, powerful challenges, and resources to support your evolution—and a band of brothers who call you forward. No fluff. No hiding. Just truth, accountability, and momentum.
MEN’S RETREATS
Every man needs a crucible—a place to burn off the old and forge what’s real. These retreats are immersive experiences where you step away from distractions, drop the mask, and reconnect with what matters. Surrounded by men walking the same path, you’ll rediscover your strength, speak your truth, and come back more grounded and alive than ever.
What Men Are Saying
"Stu Murray is a natural leader with a big heart and passionate approach that deeply inspires. His authenticity and integrity shine through in all he does. Stu creates and holds a safe space where I feel fully supported, heard, and empowered to explore freely. He's a rare gem—a curious cat and a grounded truth warrior. I’m proud to call him my brother!"
- Phil Gorman
“Working with Stu has really helped me to feel more connected with my potential and aligned with my purpose. Through his retreats and coaching, I've been able to overcome difficult personal barriers and have developed many new relationships with caring, like-minded individuals. He's a natural facilitator and leader who always speaks with intention and insight and I'll forever be deeply grateful for all of his support and encouragement."
- Mikey Wasnidge
The Brothr Podcast with Stu Murray
Raw conversations and actionable tools for men ready to break through limits, master their emotions, and lead with purpose.
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Most men don’t fall apart in one blow.
They erode—quietly, completely—inside the life they were told to want.
Chris Goguen had the stable government job. A pensioned path. A marriage. A community.
On paper, he was set.