Stop Performing. Start Living.
You’re not broken—you’re buried under years of proving, pleasing, and pretending.
I’ve Been Where You Are
I'm Stu Murray—men’s coach, author, and founder of Brothr. I’ve been exactly where you are: high-achieving on the outside, quietly crumbling on the inside. I remember sitting alone in my car, wondering how I could have all this success and still feel so empty.
That moment cracked something open. I chose to stop performing and start rebuilding—from the inside out. Through radical ownership, discipline, and brotherhood, I reclaimed my life. And now, I help other men do the same.
I'm here to guide, challenge, and support you every step of the way—just as my mentors have done for me. This shit isn’t easy, but it’s the most important work you’ll ever do.
My Offerings - Your Path Forward:
1-ON-1 COACHING
You’re not broken—you’re misaligned. This isn’t therapy. It’s practical, personalized mentorship for high-performing men ready to stop outsourcing their worth. We’ll uncover the patterns holding you back, strengthen your emotional muscles, and build a plan that aligns with who you truly are. If you’re ready to face yourself and lead with clarity, this is where it starts.
THE BROTHRHOOD (COMMUNITY)
Growth isn’t a solo mission. The Brothrhood is where real connection meets consistent growth. Inside, you’ll get weekly calls, expert guest sessions, powerful challenges, and resources to support your evolution—and a band of brothers who call you forward. No fluff. No hiding. Just truth, accountability, and momentum.
MEN’S RETREATS
Every man needs a crucible—a place to burn off the old and forge what’s real. These retreats are immersive experiences where you step away from distractions, drop the mask, and reconnect with what matters. Surrounded by men walking the same path, you’ll rediscover your strength, speak your truth, and come back more grounded and alive than ever.
What Men Are Saying
"Stu Murray is a natural leader with a big heart and passionate approach that deeply inspires. His authenticity and integrity shine through in all he does. Stu creates and holds a safe space where I feel fully supported, heard, and empowered to explore freely. He's a rare gem—a curious cat and a grounded truth warrior. I’m proud to call him my brother!"
- Phil Gorman
“Working with Stu has really helped me to feel more connected with my potential and aligned with my purpose. Through his retreats and coaching, I've been able to overcome difficult personal barriers and have developed many new relationships with caring, like-minded individuals. He's a natural facilitator and leader who always speaks with intention and insight and I'll forever be deeply grateful for all of his support and encouragement."
- Mikey Wasnidge
The Brothr Podcast with Stu Murray
Raw conversations and actionable tools for men ready to break through limits, master their emotions, and lead with purpose.
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Featured Articles
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