Stu Murray
Men’s Coach | Author | Guide
I am dedicated to becoming a better man and guiding others to do the same. I believe a more beautiful world — filled with abundance, reverence, and possibility — is not merely a dream but a reality waiting just beyond the threshold of our choices.
My Story
How can I sum up the totality of my being in a few paragraphs? How much do I share about my life, offering insights into who I am, while also not exposing myself to strangers (no offense!) too much? It’s a bit of a dilemma, but I’ll do my best for the purposes of this site.
I am an educator, author, facilitator, and passionate advocate for collective transformation and personal responsibility. I derive immense joy and fulfillment from delving into the depths of human experience, self-leadership, and personal development. My journey has been remarkable, marked by exploration, learning, and growth, shaping both my understanding of the world and my purpose within it.
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An early seed for my work today was planted during my time playing university football. Playing football at a high level presented an incredible opportunity, yet it also exposed me to the challenges of a hyper-masculine environment. Within this restrictive dynamic, there was little room for men to express emotions or vulnerability. This environment led me to grapple with the balance between “fitting in” and expressing my authentic self. As a man who feels deeply and desires genuine connection, this was a terrible predicament to be faced with. Unable to reconcile the gap, I left the team with grief and frustration at the end of my third year. Little did I know, this experience would deeply shape who I am today and the types of spaces I strive to create for men.
After departing university, I embarked on a soul-stirring journey that led me to purchase a one-way ticket to India, seeking new insights through the wisdom of Eastern philosophy and the practice of yoga. I embraced a nomadic lifestyle for the next five years, immersing myself in diverse cultures and embracing the opportunity to learn from firsthand experiences. This transformative chapter expanded my horizons, offering profound insights and shaping my understanding of self, purpose, and the interconnectedness of our world. Then I started to root down…
For eight memorable years, I dedicated myself to the field of public education. As an educator, I firmly believe that children are our best hope for the future. I challenged the status quo, pushing boundaries and advocating for innovative approaches to learning. Recognizing the immense potential within each child, I strived to create transformative experiences that nurtured their growth and ignited their passion for knowledge.
As my journey evolved, I felt the need to pivot away from public education and embark on a new path. This transition culminated in the publication of a book on experiential, community-based learning, which served as a capstone to my time in the education system. This transformative experience allowed me to reflect on my past, share my insights, and explore new avenues for personal and professional growth.
Inspired by my transformation, I found myself drawn towards an entrepreneurial path. Today, I am deeply engaged in creating offerings that empower men to cultivate self-leadership. Through these endeavors, I aim to inspire others to challenge conventional norms, embrace their unique strengths, and foster meaningful connections that drive positive change.
Understanding the significance of creating safe spaces for men to heal, grow, and transform, I cultivate a culture and provide experiences that support their emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. Through facilitating immersive retreats and personalized coaching, I strive to empower men to embrace vulnerability, redefine masculinity, and lead fulfilling lives.
My life has been a tapestry of experiences that have shaped my perspectives and fueled my drive for personal and societal transformation. I am constantly evolving, eager to learn, and committed to making a positive impact in the lives of others. Join me on this journey of exploration, growth, and empowerment, and together, let us create a world that celebrates authenticity, embraces diversity, and fosters genuine connections.
My Training
Support Facilitator with Sacred Sons — Ongoing
Support Facilitator with Max Trombly retreats — Ongoing
Advanced Youth Mentorship Training with Sonz Youth — In Progress
Men’s Leadership Training with Connor Beaton — 2024
1-on-1 Coaching with Max Trombly — 2024
Men’s Leadership Training with Sacred Sons — 2023
Seasoned educator specializing in experiential education and supporting disengaged young men — 2016 - 2022
Certified AcroYoga Instructor — 2017
Certified Yoga Instructor (RYS 200 & 500 Hrs) — 2013 & 2014
Other Projects
C.A.R.E. to Make a Difference (Published Booked)
I believe education is critical to creating a more beautiful world, where all individuals have an opportunity to thrive and can realize their highest point of contribution to society. That's why I co-authored this concise, practical, and engaging book, where you will learn how to easily design effective and meaningful learning experiences. You will learn how to teach more efficiently and meet your goals. As a result, you’ll find that teaching is more fulfilling and fun. C.A.R.E. is adaptable and it is useful in every grade of schooling, including colleges, universities, alternate schooling, and business settings.
Stu Murray Podcast
Listen to episodes of my podcast (no longer active).
Overview: At a time when we’re longing for a deeper sense of meaning and belonging, there’s a new story emerging that we’re all a part of. When we hear someone else’s journey, it can inspire our own. This is the Stu Murray Podcast, where we have honest conversations with people who are contributing to a more beautiful world. This is our story.
Work With Me
1-on-1 Coaching
Personalized coaching offers tailored guidance and support to help you break through barriers, achieve your goals, and cultivate lasting transformation.
What Men Are Saying
Phabien Doiron
“Stu is definitely a fuck yes in my life! I have a high level of trust and respect for this man. With his ability to show up honestly and courageously, he has created a big network around him that all value his support tremendously. Being an entrepreneur myself, I don’t know many people who are as driven as he is with the ability to be highly productive, while still maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Men’s retreats, summits, as well as the group mentorship program I’ve participated in and have all been truly life changing!”
Mikey Wasnidge
"Working with Stu has really helped me to feel more connected with my potential and aligned with my purpose. Through his retreats, alignment course and accountability coaching, I've been able to overcome difficult personal barriers and have developed many new relationships with caring, like-minded individuals. He's a natural facilitator and leader who always speaks with intention and insight and I'll forever be deeply grateful for all of his support and encouragement."